JACOB
&
JARED
W E ’ R E G E T T I N G
M A R R I E D, H0MOSEXUALLY
10/11/2026 RIVIERA THATRE N. TONAWANDA, NY
✷ We're getting homosexually married ✷
❤︎
✷ We're getting homosexually married ✷ ❤︎
We are finally getting homosexually wed, we know you’ve been waiting for…checks watch…ten years for this special occasion. After our thrilling metal show gay engagement (link to the CBC article below) we knew we had to up the ante so we’re throwing a pizza party…ON STAGE! WOWIE!
All jokes aside we want to spend a special evening with all of the people we love the most. It will be easy breezy with a short ceremony, pizza from Extra Extra Pizza, music by a few of our amazing DJ friends, and cake by us (if it all goes according to plan)!
The wedding will be 10/11/2026 at the historic Riviera Theatre in North Tonawanda, NY. Starting at 4pm and going until late, choose your own adventure. While we truly love your children, we would also love if they weren’t there. You don’t have to dress for a gala, but we would love for you to dress cute.
THE
DEETS✹
Jacob Wade Marsh, son of Michael Marsh and Sandra Marsh, brother to Andre and Zachary Marsh. Born June 26, 1990, a cancer, if you believe in that sort of thing. Lived in Bear Lake, PA (neither as nautical or as gay as it sounds). Attended the prestigious K-12 Panama school, graduated with honors and moved on to Villa Maria College for a BFA in animation. Jacob stayed in Buffalo and worked 6 grueling years as a barista at [REDACTED] until he started working at Evergreen health as a graphic designer (thats why all this wedding stuff looks so good) in February of 2016.
Jared Thomas Pease, son of Jeffery Pease and Nancy Pease, brother (half) to Evan Pease. Born August 20, 1990, a leo but he pretends like he isn’t. Jared grew up in Williamsville, NY, where at one in time Jared was respectfully asked to leave his highschool, so he graduated early (from another high school). Jared decided to take a gap year (4), and tour in his very successfull metal band Nobody Lives Forever or something. After making bank, he decided to attend college for one semester and use his not degree to become a very successful audio engineer.
The two met in passing while Jacob was working as a barista at [REDACTED]; making Jared triple venti upside down caramel macchiatos the nights he would come in from working at the Waiting Room or Town Ballroom. But they didn’t truly meet until Jacob’s new job had him hosting a pride event at the Waiting Room (RIP). Unsurprisingly they started talking about tattoos, because that’s how tattooed people flirt. A year later and they were officially dating.
Jacob and Jared dated for 7 years living apart until in 2022 they were lucky enough to find their forever home, which they closed on in September, the same day the queen died. They named it the Ockie house after a former owner, and have spent the last three years fixing it up and falling more in love and never fighting about house projects. On September 17, 2023 Jacob proposed to Jared on stage during the Green Lung show in Toronto, and that leads us to today.
The week end
Friday, October 9
Welcome Party | TBD
Saturday, October 10
Brunch & chillin at the house | last minute prep for Sunday
Sunday, October 11
Wedding! | 3:30PM
The Riviera Theatre
67 Webster St., North Tonawanda, NY 14120
The Ven ue
Built in 1926 the Riviera Theatre has been the anchor of North Tonawanda, bringing in performers from all across North America.
Home to the Mighty WurliTzer pipe organ. The WurliTzer organ was manufactured at the WurliTzer industrial park in North Tonawanda, just blocks from the theatre and installed in 1926. This instrument was used by the WurliTzer company as an official demonstrator model to have prospective customers hear how one of their organs would sound in a theatre of this size.
Where to stay
TBD but it will be close!
Things to do
For our out of town family and friends, we want you to enjoy the city as locals. Here are some of our favorite spots to eat, drink, and explore in the greater Buffalo area.